Planning a wedding? It’s pretty exciting, but also a rollercoaster of feelings. Here’s a peek at the top five things most of us worry about, and some handy fixes.
1. “Oh-no! Did I choose right?” moments
Every couple frets about making the perfect choices, be it for the theme, music, or the dress. Remember, it’s essential to trust your instincts. When in doubt, have a chat with trusted friends or professionals. Just know that every choice you make sprinkles a bit of ‘you’ onto your day, making it authentically and fabulously yours.
2. What if I go over budget?
Concerned about costs spiraling out of control? It’s wise to set a clear budget before you do any planning or decision-making, factoring in a little extra for unforeseen expenses. Generally you want to set aside an emergency fund of 10% of your total budget. Keep in mind the various hidden costs such as fees, gratuities, setup charges, etc. Regularly reviewing and sticking to this budget can keep financial stress at bay.
3. How do I include cultural and family traditions?
Navigating diverse backgrounds? Concerned about honoring family traditions? Initiate conversations with family members to understand cherished customs. Whether it’s a ritual, dance, or heirloom dish, incorporate these elements into your celebration. For example, you might want to include a traditional dish on the menu, add a religious ritual in the ceremony, or play a specific song from your culture in the dance playlist. This respects and celebrates both families, making everyone feel included.
4. How to avoid technology glitches
Technology is indispensable in today’s weddings, from multimedia presentations to livestreams for distant guests. However, tech glitches can happen. You don’t want your romantic first dance to abruptly stop because somebody bumped your Spotify playlist. For smooth integration, have tech support or someone tech-savvy on hand. This way, every virtual moment goes off without a hitch.
5. What if my vendor lets me down?
Wondering if your vendors will deliver as promised? Regular check-ins and clear communication can help align expectations. Seeking testimonials or reviews from past clients can also offer peace of mind. Scrutinize their contract, and check that they have contingency plans for inclement weather or other potential delays.
Got those worries sorted? Brilliant! But, to keep things calm on the big day, there’s one thing you’ve got to have: a checklist. Let’s jump right into that!